Saturday, June 2, 2012

I'd Rather Be an Introvert

A few posts ago, I suggested writers might be more introverted than actors. I recently read a blog that discussed introverts, and the author listed several myths surrounding them that I believe sum up the majority of creative people in the world. Here is his list:

Myth #1 – Introverts don’t like to talk.
Myth #2 – Introverts are shy.
Myth #3 – Introverts are rude.
Myth #4 – Introverts don’t like people.
Myth #5 – Introverts don’t like to go out in public.
Myth #6 – Introverts always want to be alone.
Myth #7 – Introverts are weird.
Myth #8 – Introverts are aloof nerds.
Myth #9 – Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun.
Myth #10 – Introverts can fix themselves and become extroverts

Does that sound like any of the prejudices against you creative individuals out there?

The author explained introverts were people who liked to talk, but they needed a reason to engage in conversation with others, a reason to interact. They are not aloof or rude; they just find small talk unnecessary. And get an introvert in a discussion on that which they are passionate about, and you may find yourself captive for hours.

Unfortunately, extroverts find it hard to understand that the inner world of the introvert is much more exciting and stimulating than the thrill-seeking, mile-a-minute opportunities they levitate toward. But what is wrong with that? Over-stimulation often provides too many distractions for an artist. These activities get in the way of the genius that comes in the still, small moments—those moments that provide a great deal of fun and relaxation.

The more I delved into that blog article, the more I recognized myself in the author’s description. Only, I always thought there was something wrong with me. I always wondered why I couldn’t be more like an extrovert. After all, they seem to get results faster and are more accepted than those with quite, thoughtful natures. No matter how I tried, I just couldn’t fix myself to act differently either.

So be it. I look at what I’ve accomplished in creativity, and I am grateful. I wouldn’t trade who I am for all the acceptance on the planet. And although, I’d like exciting experiences filed away in my brain so I know what I’m talking about when my characters climb a mountain or shoot a gun, I’d much rather be behind the computer and living my thrills on the page.

How about you?

5 comments:

christopher said...

Sometimes for the sake of simplicity we put labels on people, as we do with so much else. But labels can sometimes be misleading.

Rebecca H. Jamison said...

You are so right. When I took a personality test in college that pegged me as an introvert, my mom said, "Oh, don't worry. You can become an extrovert."

I had plenty of friends at the time and a good social life.

Daisy Carter said...

I think I have a split personality - sometimes I'm an introvert and sometimes I'm an extrovert. I'd like to live out the thrills I write on the page, but I don't want to have to take off my sweatpants to do it! :)

Great post - I also really liked the one about how actors and writers share many traits - so, so true!

Jo Schaffer said...

I think I'm an ambivert. (=

Jamie Burch said...

I'm finally accepting myself as an introvert. If I try to be any other way then I'm not being true to who I am.

Thanks for the follow! :)